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The Man’s Guide To Recognizing A High-Value Woman

You don’t need “plenty of fish,” just the RIGHT fish.

James Michael Sama
8 min readMay 1, 2024

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We’ve all heard “oh, there are plenty of fish in the sea” when it comes to dating. But, when was the last time you heard the story of someone catching hundreds of tiny little minnows?

No. You want the catch. You want the one you couldn’t possibly let go. The one you’d do anything to reel in.

I’ve written hundreds of articles about what it takes to be high-value man (no, really — hundreds) and how to recognize him — but this article answers the question: “How do the guys know when they’ve found their match?”

Here are 10 signs to look out for.

1: She stimulates you…intellectually.

There is no denying that, as men, appearance is what initially draws us to a woman. It’s difficult to spot a great personality from across the room. Sure, some relationships are based strictly on attraction — but they never thrive, flourish, or last.

When conversations lack depth or intrigue, we often fill our time with physical activity together (because, uh, there’s nothing to really talk about) but it is impossible to build a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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