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The Most Important Question You Need To Be Asking Yourself
Who are you, really?
It is quite literally my job to ask people questions in order to help them discover who they really are.
These questions lead to fascinating discussions about purpose, career choices, social acceptance, confidence, insecurities, relationships, self-love, and unpredictable topics that seemingly come out of left field…which is exactly the point.
The point is to uncover and explore lesser-walked territory that can lead us to real and meaningful questions about one’s fundamental existence here on earth, and what we want to do with it.
I have coached people from all walks of life, from all over the world, from all different economic backgrounds, and the one universal question that stumps everyone I ask, is:
What is your identity?
If you think about it on the surface, you’ll probably come up with an answer related to your career, or business, or family, or relationship.
“I’m a Vice President.”
“I’m a parent and an entrepreneur.”
“I’m an athlete.”
While these are pieces of your identity, they do not define you as a person.
