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The Narcissist’s Dating Playbook

Recognize these red flags so you can avoid them.

James Michael Sama
8 min readJul 29, 2023

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People tend to have patterns in their relationships. Usually, we can observe these patterns and learn about what type of person, or partner, someone really is.

Sure, people grow and evolve over the years, but the fact is that if a string of past relationships or behaviors have all followed the same trend, you can expect to notice similar things in the present, as well.

This also means that there are clues to someone’s behavior that shine through…if you know what to look for.

Knowing how to spot a narcissist (or narcissistic behaviors) coming is the best way to avoid the heartbreak and frustration that come along with them.

That’s why you’re here, right? To see if the signs you think might be signaling this guy is a player, a narcissist, are actually real. To see if there’s any fire where the smoke is.

Well, let’s find out.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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