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The Top 5 Reasons Why He Ghosted You
Have you ever felt like everything was going great, but then, *POOF*? Here’s what might’ve happened.
If you’ve ever dated over the past few years, you know how things go sometimes:
Meet on a dating app or through a friend, start talking and feverishly exchanging texts. Video chat a couple of times. Start getting really excited. Maybe even go out for dinner or a drink.
Trade a few more texts after that. Look forward to the next time you’re getting together.
And then…👻
He vanishes without a trace.
This is frustrating and can be heartbreaking — not to mention rude and inconsiderate.
While there is no excuse for an adult ghosting another adult, there may be some possible reasons why it happened.
Let’s explore:
1: You fell for who you THOUGHT he was.
How long does it take to really get to know someone? I mean really get to know them? We’ve all heard stories of couples who’ve been married for DECADES and suddenly a secret came out about one of them that the other had never known.