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The Truthful Answer To: “What Do Women Want?”

Not as complicated as you think.

James Michael Sama
5 min readAug 12, 2023

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They say there are 8 wonders of the world, but we all know that the 9th one is the question: What the hell do women actually want?

This article isn’t necessarily here to answer that question, but to help explore if it’s even the right one to ask in the first place.

And hey, we might just answer the question along the way by accident.

Here’s the thing: We are constantly told from a young age that women are complicated and difficult to understand. While this may be true…so are men.

If we’re being honest…all of us are difficult to understand, at times. It’s hard enough to understand ourselves, let alone for us to understand others, and vice versa.

That’s sort of, well, part of being human.

If you’ve ever made a blunder and stopped to ask “Why did I even do that?” then you get it. If you haven’t…well…you’re probably lying to yourself.

So, naturally, if we can’t understand ourselves at times, how do we expect to be able to group one entire gender together into a category and understand ALL of them at the same time?

Life doesn’t work that way. Humans don’t work that way.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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