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The Ultimate Guide to Becoming Highly Attractive [Men’s Edition]

Everything you need to know.

Attraction, in itself, is subjective. Meaning: Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive. I do believe, though, that there are some consistent traits in men that women are seeking, particularly as they (seem to) become harder to find as time goes on.

Let’s explore some of those traits below. Add some of your own in the comments to continue the conversation.

1: Exude confidence, NOT arrogance.

We all know that confidence is attractive, but it’s important to understand the nuances of displaying confidence without it pouring over into the cup of arrogance.

Confidence is reflected in how one treats themselves, treats those around them, and projects themselves to the world. It is calm, well-mannered, and respectful.

Confidence is sure of itself, it does not need to prove to you that it exists. Arrogance, on the other hand, is loud and boisterous, desperately trying to prove its worth at all opportunities.

Here’s why it’s attractive:

Confidence is attractive in men (and, as we know, women), because it signals a sense of strength and security.