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The World’s Most Desirable Men Understand These 10 Secrets

It’s not what he does, it’s who he becomes.

James Michael Sama
11 min readFeb 7, 2024

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There is a lot of dating advice that swirls around the internet teaching men how to approach women, how to dress, how to read body language, and more of what I call surface level advice.

I know it’s out there because I’ve written some of it. Well, a lot of it.

While much of this advice is helpful, it doesn’t get deep enough to address what inner qualities a man must possess in order to be truly desirable as a partner.

That’s what the points below are for:

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1: He doesn’t idolize women.

First thing’s first — for a man to be desirable to a woman he must maintain a level of dignity and integrity.

In my younger years, I failed miserably at “wooing” women when I thought I was doing everything right. Why?

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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