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These 15 Things Will Tell You Everything About A Person
This will show you who they really are.
“I’m just getting to know them,” you tell your friends or family as you describe someone’s hobbies, or routines, or career path.
You start to spend time around their friends and family, you do a couple of sleepovers, you start getting attached to their dog.
For some people in modern society, that’s enough to start embarking on a real and dedicated commitment — an emotional one, at the very least.
As you continue down this road, the connection becomes stronger and the relationship more solid.
I think at this stage, many people subconsciously select this person as “the one.” They figure they’ve come this far so it must be where their life is heading.
Here’s something I encourage all of my clients to do: Take inventory.
Take consistent logical and pragmatic inventory of your new love interest as your relationship progresses. Be HONEST about what you see, what you like, and what you don’t like.
Just because you love everything about a person after 3 months doesn’t mean you’ll love it all after 6 months, or a year, when true patterns and tendencies emerge. But, if you keep seeing them as the 3 month version of…