To Earn Her Respect, Do These 10 Things

Respect is earned, not given.

James Michael Sama
8 min readSep 11, 2023

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Respect is one of those interesting terms that puts some people on the defensive because they think it signals bowing to authority, or an imbalance of power in a relationship.

This in itself is a problem with today’s relationships.

We need to respect each other as equals, as partners, as humans if we want any shot at a thriving and healthy relationship.

Mutual respect is the foundation of other integral parts of a partnership, such as trust, independence, and love.

How can you value someone’s opinions, thoughts, or even their very existence if you don’t respect them? You just…can’t, and you won’t.

So, an uncomfortable newsflash for the men — women will not date you if they don’t respect you.

Let’s discuss a few traits that can often fly under the radar, but cultivate a sense of respect in your direction.

===> Important disclaimer: It matters not how many of these traits, or how many more above them, that a man has. If he does not respect you in return, you need to cut ties and go…

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James Michael Sama

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