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To Properly Love A Woman: Do These 10 Things

The modern man’s complete guide.

James Michael Sama
7 min readJun 27, 2023

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The points in this article are designed to help you gain a greater understanding of how to express and explore your love for your partner in ways that she feels on a deeper level than ever before.

1: Start with a clean slate.

First thing’s first, you’re probably going to come into a relationship with preconceived notions. It’s natural. We all have a past that has taught us valuable lessons and led us to where we are today.

While remembering those lessons, you must make your primary goal to start fresh and learn about the woman who has now captured your heart.

Let go of your assumptions. Let go of the memories of other people’s actions. Let go of the image of her you’ve created inside your mind — and explore who she is at her core.

There are lessons in her heart and mind that can only be learned by making her feel safe enough to reveal them to you. This safety comes along with knowing that you’re falling in love with her, and not just the idea of her.

2: Pledge to be consistent.

Love is not a part time commitment. You’re either in, or you’re out.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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