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Truly Confident People Have These 10 Thoughts

Real confidence shines from within.

James Michael Sama
9 min readJan 13, 2022

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Searching the internet for confidence building tips will bring you millions of articles, videos, e-books, and podcasts. While much of it is useful to an extent, much of it is also a lot more about how to appear confident than how to actually build real, internal certainty of self.

The only person who knows whether you’re truly confident or not, is yourself — because you are the only person who knows what’s going on inside of your mind.

Anyone can dress, walk, talk, or act a certain way…and it could be just that…an act.

In this article I want to discuss what you will feel when you’ve done the inner work and have built the level of confidence that shines from within you.

1: “I am grateful for what I already have.”

Truly confident people take the time to look around and practice gratitude for the people and things that are already in their lives. This is the very foundation of being happy with where you’re at — recognizing it clearly.

Think about it: If you’re always focusing on what’s next, or what you’re missing, or who’s no longer around, or how far you have left to go — confidence will always evade you because you’ll only be…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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