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When You’re With The Right Person, You’ll Feel These 10 Things
Clear signs of the right relationship.
A great relationship isn’t just built upon how you feel about your partner, it also matters how you feel about yourself when you’re with them.
The right partner will show you that healthy love enhances your life, not complicates it.
Before we dive in, let me clarify what I mean by “the one,” because I actually don’t believe in this concept in the traditional sense.
That’s right! “The love guy” doesn’t think “the one” exists. Hear me out…
I believe that love is a conscious and intentional choice that two people make every single day. Yes, there is deep-rooted emotion. Yes, there are strong feelings. No, you don’t choose who you love…
But the act of love as a verb is very much a choice.
The decision to commit to someone, to be monogamous, to build a life, to compromise, to put in daily effort, to be “their person,” that is a choice.
You choose your “one,” and they choose you.
Through their actions and their expressions of love, you’ll have feelings and realizations that reinforce your decision to give them your heart, and to receive theirs in return.