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Women With These 10 Traits Are Diamonds In The Rough

If you find one — don’t let her go.

James Michael Sama
9 min readJan 4, 2022

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“James, you’re always talking about what men need to do in relationships, what about women?! Grunt grumble moan herpa derpa.”

A common (but inaccurate) criticism levied frequently in the comments by — you guessed it — dudes.

We all know that relationships have to “go both ways” and that men are looking for a loving, caring, and trustworthy partner just the same as women are.

And, just like women are, men are frustrated by the search.

We all know that finding a great partner is like searching for a needle in a haystack, or a diamond in the rough.

So, what qualities make a woman shine brightly above the rest? We will explore a few of them below.

1: She is genuine.

If I ask you to think of someone in your life who is genuine, who comes to mind and what qualities do they possess?

When I think of someone genuine, I think of someone who is kind, trustworthy, compassionate, and caring.

Someone who makes you feel cared for and safe.

It is biologically true that good men strive to protect the women in their lives and make them feel safe

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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