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You’re Probably Looking for the Right Woman in the Wrong Places

James Michael Sama
4 min readFeb 4, 2020

Let’s take a quick gander at how some of our social norms have changed over the past few years…

Social networks like Instagram and Snapchat have created a society even more focused on image and immediate gratification.

More individualized entertainment and technology has empowered us all to seclude ourselves into our blanket-cocoon and enjoy whatever Netflix series we are told is trending, so maybe we’re less willing to leave the house.

When we do leave the house, we are looking down at our phones, huddled up taking selfies with our friends, or walking around with headphones on.

It’s no wonder we feel isolated and alone. While we are attempting to be more connected to the world, we are actually becoming less connected to those around us.

Cue: Dating apps.

What better solution to solve this problem than to use the very device being wedged between us, in order to bring us together?

Ah, but — short attention spans, overwhelming “inventory,” low response rates, and safety concerns all make that a less-than-ideal solution.

As we whittle down the options to meet other people, we seem to be left with introductions from friends, and bars or clubs on the weekends…and…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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