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Earn Her Love By Doing These 15 Things

Love must be earned, and then it must be maintained.

James Michael Sama
7 min readJun 6, 2022

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Love, trust, and respect are not things that we should expect to have handed to us. In fact, the very value in them lies in the work it takes to earn them.

When you’re serious about building a relationship with someone, it’s important that your actions reflect your intentions.

It’s also important to be genuine and authentic in everything that you do. Never do anything here to manipulate or influence someone’s feelings or emotions. These points are designed to guide good men who could use some clarity on the actions that women appreciate and notice.

1: Invite her on proper dates.

None of this “Hey, I’m out with some friends, wanna meet up?” nonsense before you really know each other.

She knows that the effort you put in is a reflection of your interest, and actually taking the time to talk to her, learn her interests, and plan a proper date accordingly will send the message that she’s not just another woman in your rotation — but someone that you’re genuinely interested in spending real time with as you get to know each other.

2: Don’t push for sex early on (or…ever).

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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